Maybe it's neither and you become a crazy son-of-a-bitch headed straight for the asylum. They could involve a man or couple to play with we have not met with anyone. All I can think of is getting off and pleasing a woman. Thats the thing i hate is cheaters. Age etc are not very important to me as important as breething and being able to hang with a healthy girl who is fun easy going and understanding hardworking at what they want ok dont waste my time or yours so please don't waste mine and I won't bull you.