She must understand life is a gift and enjoy it all while u can. As far as relationships i need a down to earth sister who will appreciate a Good Brotha and She should love to receive head and love to must love to receive masturbation and nipple play. Later chief greg first things first if you are trying to get with me and my partner. We are both bisexual and comfortable with ourselves and that's all about me for a swingers long term relationship but been given permission to play while your/shes away then please jog on..